Key Takeaways
- Probate is triggered in California at $184,500 in fair market value — meaning almost every homeowner is at risk, regardless of income level.
- A will alone does NOT avoid probate. A properly drafted and fully funded revocable living trust is the most reliable strategy.
- Beneficiary designations (POD/TOD) are powerful tools but carry serious risks if outdated, used for minors, or relied on as a sole strategy.
- Adding a child to your deed to avoid probate can trigger gift taxes, capital gains issues, and property tax reassessment — often doing more harm than good.
- Procrastination is the #1 mistake. Trusts should be reviewed every 3–5 years and updated after any major life change.
Introduction
If you own property or have meaningful assets in California, probate is not a distant legal concept — it is a real risk that affects families at every income level. In this episode of the Legacy Protected podcast, estate planning and probate attorney Romelia “DeDe” Soto of The Soto Law Group walks listeners through three smart legal strategies to help Californians future-proof their estates and avoid the cost, delay, and stress of probate.
DeDe Soto is a seasoned estate planning probate attorney in Newport Beach who serves families and business owners throughout Newport Beach, Huntington Beach, and Irvine. Her practice covers estate planning, trust administration, probate litigation, conservatorships, special needs trusts, and business succession planning. In this episode, she breaks down exactly what probate is, why you should work hard to avoid it, and what practical legal strategies actually work.
Why Every Californian Should Care About Probate
Host: Why would so many Californians actively try to avoid probate, and what are the risks if they don’t?
DeDe Soto: Probate in California is the court-supervised process that determines who your natural heirs are and how your assets will be distributed. The critical thing people don’t realize is that probate is triggered at $184,500 in fair market value — not equity. So for a home in California, you would be hard-pressed to find anything valued under that threshold. That means most homeowners are setting their families up for the probate process whether they know it or not.
DeDe emphasized that probate is not just an inconvenience — it can be a years-long ordeal. Her firm recently closed one probate matter that had been open for five years and another that lasted four years. The causes ranged from beneficiary disputes and minor children requiring court-appointed guardians to simple court delays, including a case where a hearing was continued twice — once due to a Wi-Fi outage and once because the judge was ill — adding 60 days to the process with no fault on the client’s part.
Beyond the time, the financial costs are substantial. Filing fees alone start at $465, plus roughly $500 for required newspaper publication, attorney appearance fees at each hearing, and costs for every document filed. And the financial exposure is not limited to wealthy estates:
DeDe Soto: It doesn’t matter if you have half a million dollars or a few million — after beneficiaries fight about it, there’s really not much money left. My position is: you want to avoid probate no matter what level your estate is at.
She also noted that probate can occur even while you are still alive — through conservatorship proceedings — if your estate planning documents fail to address what happens when you develop cognitive impairment.
Strategy #1 — The Revocable Living Trust
The first and most comprehensive legal strategy DeDe recommends is the revocable living trust. Contrary to a common misconception, having a will alone does not avoid probate in California. A will still must be court-approved, and creditors, charities, and heirs can all dispute it in probate court.
DeDe Soto: A revocable trust avoids probate if it’s done correctly, if it’s been funded properly, and if the beneficiaries have been designated. Not all trusts are the same. I’ve seen trusts that are horribly written and will end up in probate — some from attorneys who don’t specialize in this area, and many from do-it-yourself online services.
Here is how the revocable living trust works: the grantor (the asset owner) transfers their property into the trust and serves as both trustee and beneficiary during their lifetime. Successor trustees are named to take over if the grantor becomes incapacitated or passes away. At that point, assets are distributed to beneficiaries entirely outside of the probate court.
A critical element many people miss is the incapacity clause. DeDe always includes specific language describing how cognitive impairment will be determined — whether that requires a neurologist evaluation, a family panel, or another process. Without this, a trust can still land a family in probate through a conservatorship proceeding.
What assets should be funded into the trust?
- Primary residence and other real property
- Rental properties (via direct title transfer or LLC assignment)
- LLCs holding real estate (assigned to the trust)
- Brokerage accounts (Charles Schwab, Fidelity, etc.) — retitled in the trust’s name
- Checking and savings accounts above approximately $100,000 (below that threshold, naming the trust as beneficiary is often sufficient)
- Personal property such as jewelry and artwork — transferred via an “Assignment of Personal Property” document
- A Personal Property Memorandum can be used separately to specify who receives individual items
What does NOT go into the trust: 401(k)s and IRAs remain in the individual’s name and pass by beneficiary designation.
DeDe also highlighted the most common funding mistakes she sees:
- Listing assets on Schedule A without actually transferring legal title into the trust
- Failing to retitle the home after a refinance — lenders often take the property out of the trust, and it never gets put back
- Creating an LLC for a rental property but never assigning it to the trust
- Not updating the trust after marriage, divorce, or acquiring new assets
She shared a real-world success story: a family with seven beneficiaries, a primary residence, and multiple rental properties — all held in a fully funded trust. When the last parent passed, the successor trustee (one of the daughters) was able to administer the estate entirely without probate. Some beneficiaries questioned property valuations, but after independent appraisals and a complete accounting, all seven signed off and the estate was settled cleanly.
Strategy #2 — Beneficiary Designations, POD Accounts, and TOD Deeds
The second legal strategy involves using beneficiary designations, Payable on Death (POD) accounts, and Transfer on Death (TOD) deeds as targeted tools for passing specific assets outside of probate.
DeDe Soto: This is a different way to pass on assets compared to the revocable trust — and there are times when it’s absolutely beneficial. But it’s very much a case-by-case decision.
Beneficiary designations work well in specific situations: leaving something to a caregiver, a stepchild, or a person you want to handle outside your main trust; providing the successor trustee with immediate access to a checking account to pay bills; or directing 401(k) and IRA assets to a surviving spouse or specific heirs.
However, DeDe was clear about the significant risks:
- Naming a minor as a beneficiary on a 401(k) or IRA automatically triggers probate and a court-supervised guardianship of the estate, because minors cannot legally receive assets. That minor will then receive everything at age 18 with no protection.
- Outdated designations — especially after a divorce — can send assets to an ex-spouse, potentially overriding a newer trust.
- Beneficiary designations are typically all-or-nothing. You cannot include staged distributions (one-third at 25, one-third at 30, etc.) the way a revocable trust allows.
- TOD deeds for real property carry high litigation risk if done incorrectly or disputed, and DeDe is not a proponent of them as a primary strategy.
Her recommendation: name the trust as beneficiary for life insurance and retirement accounts whenever minor children or complex family dynamics are involved. This preserves your ability to include asset protection provisions, staged distributions, and bloodline protections within the trust.
Strategy #3 — Joint Ownership and Gifting: Proceed with Caution
The third strategy — joint tenancy and gifting — is the one DeDe discusses most cautiously. Many people believe that adding a child to a property deed solves the probate problem. In practice, it often creates new and serious problems.
DeDe Soto: Even community property with right of survivorship only prolongs probate — it doesn’t avoid it. At the second death, you are still going to probate. And when people add a son or daughter to their deed as a joint tenant, they don’t realize what they’ve actually done.
Adding a child to a deed in California constitutes a taxable gift. If a home is worth $1 million, the parent has just gifted the child $500,000 — triggering a gift tax return filing requirement. The financial consequences go further:
- The child receives a carryover basis (the parent’s original purchase price), not a stepped-up basis at death. If the home was purchased for $500,000 and is now worth $1 million, the child’s capital gains basis is still $500,000.
- When the child eventually sells, they will owe capital gains tax on the full appreciated value — a consequence many families don’t anticipate.
- Transferring more than 50% of a property triggers a property tax reassessment on that portion under California law.
- Once done, these transfers are extremely difficult to unwind.
A smarter alternative DeDe recommends: transferring property to an LLC and gifting up to 49% of the LLC interest does not trigger reassessment, and the grantor can retain some income from the asset.
As for outright gifting to reduce an estate: the current federal lifetime gift and estate tax exemption is approximately $15 million, though that figure is subject to legislative change. Gifting assets during your lifetime removes them from your taxable estate and allows them to grow outside of it — but you also lose access to those assets and their income. Structures such as LLCs and limited partnerships can allow gifting while retaining some income flow, and a gift tax return must always be filed for taxable gifts.
Future-Proofing Against Probate: Common Mistakes to Avoid
Even people who have worked with an estate planning attorney can inadvertently trigger probate if they are not diligent. DeDe identifies procrastination as the single biggest culprit:
DeDe Soto: Procrastination is number one. Maybe they did a trust 10 or 15 years ago and never updated it. Their assets have changed. They refinanced and the house never got put back into the trust. They got married, got divorced, and never updated their beneficiaries. And then someone passes — and they’re back in probate.
Her firm recommends a trust review every three to five years and sends clients reminder notices every three years. Key triggers for an immediate review include:
- Marriage or divorce
- Birth of a child or grandchild
- Death or incapacitation of a named trustee or guardian
- Acquisition of new property or significant assets
- Refinancing a home
- Changes in a named charity or beneficiary’s circumstances
When Should You Start Planning?
Host: Is this about age? Net worth? When should people start?
DeDe Soto: It can never be too early, but it can be too late to plan. We actually have a college plan for clients with 18-year-olds — because once a child turns 18, they need a healthcare directive, a healthcare power of attorney, a HIPAA release, and possibly a financial power of attorney. If you own a home in California, you almost certainly need a trust. And even people in their twenties should start with at least a “mini estate plan” — powers of attorney and healthcare directives — then build a revocable trust as their assets grow.
The threshold is simple: if your assets approach or exceed $184,500 in fair market value — and in California, that includes almost any home — it is time to meet with an estate planning probate attorney in Newport Beach or your local area to begin the planning process.
Ready to Protect Your Family from Probate?
The Soto Law Group serves families and business owners throughout Newport Beach, Huntington Beach, and Irvine. Attorney Romelia “DeDe” Soto offers personalized, one-on-one guidance on revocable trusts, probate avoidance, beneficiary planning, and complete estate planning strategies — because no two families are the same, and a one-size-fits-all approach simply isn’t enough.
Call: (949) 945-0059 Schedule Online: www.thesotolawgroup.com/contact-us-newport-beach-lawyers
Don’t wait until it’s too late — it can never be too early, but it can be too late to plan.
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For advice specific to your situation, please consult a licensed estate planning attorney.


